Tuesday, April 15, 2008

How To Talk To Girls – Talking Your Way To A Girl’s Heart

by Lee, Michael

Want to know how to talk to girls and easily attract them? In this article, you'll discover some unique conversation tips to warm up and eventually get a woman to like you. Putting her under a romantic spell can be very easy if you follow these great tips on how to talk to girls.

Be Calm and Confident.

The more nervous you are, the more prone you are to stutter and make mistakes when talking. You'll also have a very tough time coming up with anything interesting to say when you're anxious. So take it easy and be yourself. Women may notice if you're just "acting" out to impress her, and this might even turn her off.

Ask The "Right" Questions.

Ask questions that will encourage her to talk further and flaunt her ability or experiences. Don't ask questions that lead to a dead-end answer such as "yes" or "no", or questions that delve deeply into her private life (especially when you've just met). Moreover, don't ask silly questions for the sake of having something to say.

Develop Your Sense of Humor.

Among all the strategies on how to talk to girls, having a good sense of humor is probably the most effective.

Here are some great tips to improve your sense of humor:

If you've accidentally done something ridiculous or embarrassing, turn that situation into a joke. Learning to accept your own mistakes is a plus factor for women.

Watch comedy movies and shows to know how to deliver humor at the right time. Then tell the joke to your friends and ask them to honestly rank how funny (or not funny) you are. Tell them that your dating or social life depends on their honesty. If they don't think you're funny enough, practice until you get it right.

Each girl has her own diverse personality. Tell jokes that fit her qualities. Don't tell jokes that might offend her in any way. Be careful with sensitive issues such as religion, politics, beliefs, etc. Telling jokes about a certain politician or actor might turn out disastrous if she's a loyal fan of them.

Stay informed of current news and the latest jokes. You don't want to tell her a joke that she has heard many times before. Knowing what not to talk about is as important as knowing how to talk to girls.

If she also shows her humorous side, observe her style. Then weave your own style into hers. Be subtle; don't be too obvious that she notices you copying her approach.

Your body language is equally important in delivering your joke. Use the right facial expression and gestures.

If she's genuinely laughing, and sometimes holding or shoving you in a teasing manner, that means she's very much into you.

Did you get something useful out of this article on how to talk to girls? If you did, please share it with other guys who might need them. Remember to stay calm and confident, ask the "right" questions", and have a sense of humor so you can have an easy and pleasurable time speaking with women.

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