Wednesday, July 2, 2008

Male sex help – simple tips on how to last longer in bed

by Ken Wilson

Sexual dysfunctions, such as premature ejaculation, happen to many men, each day. That is why, in this male sex help guide I am going to give you a few easy tips on how to last longer in bed.

Especially young men run into this ugly problem – they shoot their load as fast as a speeding bullet. After 3 or 4 thrusts, they come and they feel embarrassed. Other male sex help guided will tell you to recourse to injections and all kinds of pill. However, after you will read this article about how to last longer in bed you will see that there is no need for such harsh and unpleasant actions.

Women can have multiple orgasms, one after another – and that can only be a pleasant thing. However, men need a short time after shooting their load in order to become hard again. However, the second load will always comes harder; the second orgasm will not be as fast as the first one. That is why, before meeting with your sex partner, it is advisable to spank your monkey in order to shoot your first load. This is not only about how to last longer in bed, but it can also help you concentrate on the foreplay. Draining your pipes before going on a date is one of the best male sex help advices you can get.

Also, you might want to masturbate once or twice a day. But, be careful not to come after three minutes or so. When you feel like blowing, pinch the head of the penis, wait for about five seconds, and then start masturbating again. Repeat this procedure as many times as you can, during one round of masturbation. This way, you will be able to fortify your mind control over the body, while increasing your stamina too. The girl besides will simply believe that you are a sex god, when pumping her. Also, when masturbating, the testicles get weary of producing such a huge mount of sperm in no time. This is yet another tip on how to last longer in bed.

The last male sex help suggestion I can give involves the activity of your brain. While having sex, do not think about the fact that you are having sex. Do not ponder on how good it feels, on how good it looks, just think on how you want to please your partner. The moment you think about the pleasurable outcome is the moment that you will blow your load. Think about her, about what you will do next, about the lovely conversation you had before having sex. As long as your mind concentrates on anything else but your own pleasure, your body will go on and on, as if you were a sex god. Just wait until she comes once or twice. Do not be impatient. Let her have her good time, over and over again. After that, your turn will come.

If you manage to last longer, the pleasure that you feel will also be more intense – you will feel your orgasm and you will be satisfied by the fact that she felt the same pleasure. This way, you will be sure that she will want you hard another time too.

And, since now you know how to act and react properly when in the company of a beautiful lady, she will want it as soon as possible. Because you have become a sex freak, you will be able to perform twice, or even three times during the same night. You have it all in you now. Women will scream your name while having a great orgasm – there is nothing more that I desire, as a man.

If you want to know how to last longer in bed, you must know that the mind always plays an important part in the sexual intercourse. The best male sex help guides will surely tell you that

Don't forget to download Indocquent's free social bookmark utility at http://www.indocquent.com/social_bookmark/social_bookmark_landingpage.html.

Tuesday, July 1, 2008

Would You Date a Redneck Man?

by Fred Morris

Believe it or not, there are women out there who don't know the pleasures of having doors opened for them, doing the Boot-Scooting Boogie, or spending a night under the stars on the old deer stand (off-season) with a strong, warm man. This list of reasons to date a redneck man is just for them.

1.Girls grow up in love with horses...most of them, anyway. A redneck man is likely to know how to ride one, get enthusiastic about riding one with you, and may actually have a couple on his farm that match his cowboy hat and boot.

2.You are safe with a redneck man. No one in his right mind is going to mess with a guy who may have a gun hidden in his boot.

3.A redneck man was raised right by his mama. He will open your door, pull out your chair, treat you like a lady, and don't even think about going dutch!

4.Have you ever really looked at a cowboy?

5.You don't have to dress up. If you wear your tight blue jeans and a nice T-shirt, he'll be suitably impressed, and you should look just right for going out to Nascar, the honky-tonk, or to experience the thrills of mudding.

6.Rednecks are able to have more money than one would think because they don't spend it on bigger houses or trailers, designer clothes or pricey gadgets. They like things to be uncomplicated and simple. That does not mean a redneck does not believe in luxury; he just doesn't believe he has to impress the world.

7.Rednecks are typically brought up with conservative values. This makes them a bad choice for a hippie chick, but a perfect choice if you're looking for a nice guy to raise a family with.

8.More rednecks are heroes than non-rednecks. The average white-collar businessman probably wouldn't walk into a burning building. A redneck will. You'd be surprised how many firemen, cops, and soldiers are rednecks to the bone.

9.Rednecks have a great sense of humor. It comes from years of laughing at themselves, and their brother Jimmy who went fishing with dynamite.

10.Redneck men are good at knowing how to appreciate a lady the way she should be. If you look classy, you'll be treated that way. If you decide to look sexy, watch out! A redneck man is surprisingly good at picking up on your personal vibe at any given time. He also understands that no means no, probably because his mama knocked it into his head.

The real question: why do you want to date a redneck? If you're a redneck woman, the answer is obvious. If you're not, here's my bet: you've been exposed to rednecks who seem to have the ideals of a romantic hero. You're curious - are they really like that?

Yep, they are. And they're waiting for that perfect romantic heroine who's not afraid to get her hands dirty, the tough but feminine lady. You might just be her.

Fred Morris is the owner of RedneckandSingle.com an online community of over 18,000 single rednecks seeking romance, friendship, adventure, hunting, camping and fishing partners, and Nascar buddies. Visit RedneckandSingle.com and find your own redneck.

Don't forget to download Indocquent's free social bookmark utility at http://www.indocquent.com/social_bookmark/social_bookmark_landingpage.html.

Monday, June 23, 2008

Healthy sex life

by Generic Drugs: An economic option

General notion prevails that sex only provided pleasure and that's all. But there are so many other advantageous things related to sex have been proved by the researchers. It is now proved that sex is necessary for many more other reasons than just for physical pleasure.

Sex is a boom for health conditions. Sexual activity is a form of physical exercise. Making love three times a week burns around 7,500 calories in a year. It's the equivalent of jogging 75 miles. A night of love can raise the amount of oxygen in cells helping to keep organs and tissues functioning at their peak. Making love regularly can lower levels of the body's total cholesterol slightly, while positively changing the ratio of good to bad cholesterol.

Sexual activity also helps keep bone and muscles strong. According to Dr. Karen Donahey, director of sex and marital therapy program at Chicago's Northwestern University Medical center, "any kind of physical exercise is going to increase testosterone. Testosterone is believed to help keep men's bone and muscles strong."

And according to Dr. Beverly Whipple, president-elect of the American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors and Therapists, "sex can lower levels of arthritic pain, whiplash pain and headache. Hormones that are released during sexual excitement and orgasm can elevate pain thresholds."

A popular supplemental hormone called DHEA (Dehydropiandrosterone) is released naturally during lovemaking just before orgasm and ejaculation.

According to the researchers, prostate trouble may arise or be worsened by fluid buildup within the gland. Regular ejaculation will help wash out those fluids. Be cautious when suddenly changing frequency. Sudden changes may also trigger prostate problems. Donahey also opines that sex can be a very effective way of reducing stress levels.

An affectionate touch will increase levels of Oxytocin which is known as the "bonding hormone." It is a desire-enhancing chemical secreted by the pituitary. Regular Oxytocin release may help encourage frequent lovemaking. Regular lovemaking can increase a woman's estrogen level, protect her heart and keep her vaginal tissues more supple.

All this indicates that people who are avoiding sex or are unable to perform sex, actually depriving themselves of not only physical pleasure but also of many physical advantages. This is a caution for people who are ignoring their condition of Erectile Dysfunction which stops them from indulging in sexual activities. It's high time they suffered from it. Now they should ask their doctors about the generic drugs like generic Viagra, generic Levitra, Kamagra, Caverta, etc. which are less expensive medications for Erectile Dysfunction, get treated and get an improved sexual health and all the physical advantages along with that. One can also buy Sildenafil Citrate (ED treatment) and all the generic drugs online.

Hi I am James Scott. I am an associated editor to the website trustpharma.com I am committed to provide visitors with complete information on men's sexual health, issues related to sex, I will also give you information about various generic drugs like Generic Viagra, kamagra,Caverta, Zenegra, Penegra, Kamagra Oral Jelly etc.

Don't forget to download Indocquent's free social bookmark utility at http://www.indocquent.com/social_bookmark/social_bookmark_landingpage.html.

Thursday, June 19, 2008

How to Spread Gods Word and Why

by Francis Hirak

How to spread God's Word is a question that can be difficult sometimes if we don't have the true understanding of how we as Christians should go about it. Keep in mind what Paul said, "I will not …speak of anything except what Christ has accomplished through me." Paul didn't place glory in what Christ had done for him, but in what Christ was doing through him. Now did you get the understanding of that?

Matthew 17:2-3 tells the story of the day that Jesus took his disciples to the top of the mountain where he was transfigured before them: "His face shone like the sun, and his clothes became as white as the light. And behold, Moses and Elijah appeared to them, talking with Him." Peter was so caught up in this spectacular event that he wanted them all to stay there. In verse 4 of the same chapter he says "Lord it is good for us to be here; if You wish, let us make here three tabernacles: one for You, one for Moses, and one for Elijah."

As you read further into the chapter, you can see that Jesus thought it more important to continue ministering and spreading His Word. Verse 14 begins the story of the demon possessed boy who suffered severe seizures that Jesus healed. The message we can take from this story is that there are definitely rewarding experiences when following Jesus' teachings but you'll never reap those rewards if you don't put the work in and focus on the goal at hand, which is spreading the Word of God to everyone.

Now we all know, as followers of our Lord Jesus Christ that it is a great thing to have such a spectacular experience with our God and Father; but we also know that as followers of our Lord we can't stay there. We have a lot of work to do if we are going to follow in his footsteps, and we as Christians have been called to do it.

Now that we know our Lord works through us, we have become God's vessels by means of Paul's statement and it's time for us to open up our hearts and start spreading the word to others as those who approach us with God's word. Now that our lives were saved through Jesus Christ through the use of God's vessels we have become God's vessels. Now that we are God's vessels, is it not our duty to spread the word as those who approach us?

Take notice how Jesus' disciples followed him throughout his ministry and they all had a different point of view yet at the same time leading to God's message. Their story varied a little bit, but when you read all their stories, you'll discover that one story will help you to better understand the other. It is the same as when your reading passages in the Bible, one passage will help you to understand the other.

You see brothers and sisters, we are all unique individuals and we all have our own way of relating God's message. Since we are all unique in our own way, we are given a different point of view on scriptures. Now, because of our uniqueness, one individual will find passages that will lead to the understanding of another passage where another individual may be having a difficult time with that passage and that is where you come in.

The point I am trying to get across is this, we all have a knowledge of certain scriptures that can help others and at the same time others have knowledge of scriptures that can help us. Why is it like that? You will find that a lot of us have our special books in the Bible that we keep going back to over and over again and after a wile you start to specialize in that book. Because now you start focusing whenever you hear someone giving their point of view of scriptures that relate to that book, then in turn , you go back and check it out, therefore giving you a better understanding. Therefore, by us all working together this will lead us to the true understanding of Gods knowledge and help us to grow stronger in God's Word and at the same time we are showing others how to spread God's Word.

Now that we are doing our part in spreading the word and giving people a better understanding of Gods knowledge, we are helping them to grow stronger. This is because they can now see all the great and true benefits as a result of following our Lord Jesus Christ. As they keep growing stronger in God's knowledge by Christ working through us (God's vessels) it won't be long before they to will start spreading God's word (and this would be a good thing in God's eyes.)

Now let us look at this to get the full understanding of what we are accomplishing by taking our part in spreading the word.

1. By us doing our part in spreading the word and opening up our hearts and allowing Jesus Christ our lord and Savoir to work through us, there are a lot of lives being saved just as we have been saved.

2. Through us spreading out our knowledge that we specialize in, you never know who will come across it and cause them to do a farther investigation and at the same time the Holy Spirit is pressing down on them.

3. Doing what we are supposed to be doing through passing along what we have learned so that others may also have this golden opportunity.

4. By us doing our part in spreading the word, we are not only doing our part, we are also showing others how to spread Gods Word. Now stop and think for a moment and give this some serious thought. By us doing our part through showing others how to spread Gods word, if you use your imagination you will see how far this will branch out and it started from you.

What is imagination? Ability to visualize: the ability to form images and ideas in the mind, especially of things never seen or experienced directly. Does that sound familiar to you?

If it is in your heart to spread the word and you don't know how to spread God's Word and want to reach out to many, than give the internet some serious thought by using it as your vehicle. Blogging ,writing articles, start an email newsletter, build a Christian website, these are all good ways to get the word out. And the best part about using these tools is that you can find them on the internet for free to low cost.

To find high-quality Christian home based business opportunities and ideas And to spread God's Word and work at home, check out our free educational tutorials at http://www.christianideas.net for Legitimate Christian Business Opportunities .

Don't forget to download Indocquent's free social bookmark utility at http://www.indocquent.com/social_bookmark/social_bookmark_landingpage.html.

Wednesday, June 18, 2008

When to consult a family law solicitor

by Mark Piercy

If you need advice on a family law problem, you should instruct a specialist family lawyer, who is a member of Resolution and committed to resolving family law disputes in a constructive and non-confrontational way, designed to preserve the dignity of all concerned and to encourage agreement. A small specialist firm can often provide a more personal and affordable service than a large firm with many departments and large overheads.

Mediation and collaborative law

Increasingly clients are encouraged to find ways of resolving issues by means other than court proceedings, such as mediation or collaborative law.

Divorce proceedings

Getting a divorce with the help of a family lawyer is usually straightforward. Divorce proceedings are seldom defended or require attendance of the parties at court. A simple divorce usually takes about 4 months from start to finish.

Divorce Children issues

If you can reach agreement about the care of your children, there will be no need for a court order. If there is disagreement, a family law solicitor can prepare proceedings to enable a court to make orders about residence and contact, or specific issues such as a child's education. The court will encourage the parties to reach agreement wherever possible but, failing agreement, will make any orders under the Children Act 1989 that are necessary in the interests of a child.

Financial issues arising from divorce

The courts have wide-ranging powers on divorce to redistribute income and capital assets. The courts powers are contained in the Matrimonial Causes Act 1973. To achieve a fair result the court considers all the circumstances of the case and the particular factors set out in section 25 of the Act. There is no set formula which the court applies. It is essential for each party to make full disclosure of your financial circumstances, including income, capital assets and pensions.

Child maintenance is generally calculated by reference to the Child Support Act. The parent with whom a child is not living will pay a percentage of his or her income by way of child support. The court has residual powers to order top-up maintenance in particular circumstances.

Pre-nuptial agreements

Before embarking on marriage, it might be wise to take advice from a family law solicitor about the advantages of a pre-nuptial agreement. The point of a pre-nuptial agreement is to agree what will happen if the marriage ends in separation or divorce. Increasingly, the courts are taking such agreements into account when a marriage breaks down. Such agreements need to be preceded by financial disclosure and each party should have the benefit of independent legal advice. They also need to be made at least 21 days before the wedding.

Cohabitation

If you are cohabiting, or thinking of cohabiting with another person, and particularly if you are contemplating a joint purchase of property, you should consider entering into a cohabitation agreement, in case your relationship breaks down and you need to decide what will happen to the property you live in or to assets which you have acquired together. A family lawyer can prepare a cohabitation agreement which will state how each party has contributed, or will contribute, and how the property will be divided in the future.

Inheritance claims

If you are financially dependent on another person (e.g. a spouse, cohabitant or parent) who dies without making reasonable provision for you in their will, you may be eligible to make a claim against their estate. A family lawyer can give you appropriate advice.

The best advice in all these circumstances is to consult a specialist family law solicitor.

Author's info:
Mark Piercy is a leading London family law solicitor, specialising in all areas of family law, including divorce and relationship breakdown, pre-nuptial and cohabitation agreements, issues relating to children and family inheritance claims. He practised for many years as a barrister and appeared as advocate in a number of reported cases. He has higher rights of audience as a solicitor. He is a member of Resolution, a CEDR accredited mediator and a collaborative lawyer. He has written articles and lectured on family law.

Don't forget to download Indocquent's free social bookmark utility at http://www.indocquent.com/social_bookmark/social_bookmark_landingpage.html.

Tuesday, June 17, 2008

Do You Know What To Do In Ending A Bad Relationship?

by Jane Hatton

So you've been in a relationship so long you probably figured that's all life can offer you. However if you've decided that there really is hope for you and you want to get on living life the way it's supposed to be lived for, then this article will help you figure it out.

You will need to understand to convey your message in a quiet place where there aren't a lot of onlookers or passersby that can listen in on what's happening. You will need to find a solitary place to let your partner know of your decision so that there is a mutual understanding of your decision.

Feeling stuck in a relationship is a common psychological trait that a lot of people have when they want to leave and it takes a lot of worthiness to admit to that fact. Once you finally admit to yourself and take stock of the relationship you will know what you need to do.

Above all else you do not need to blame yourself for the circumstances that you find yourself in right now and by the end of this article you will understand what you need to do and make yourself a better life if that is your decision.

So getting your message across to your mate must be done in a preferably quiet place where you won't be disturbed by anyone. It should be at a public place like a park where you will be able to walk away. If you have decided to end the relationship then you also must get rid of any possessions that might remind you of that person.

Keeping busy afterwards with social activities, exercising or doing stuff you always wanted to do is so important to take your mind off the emotional end of things. Sure it's hard to break up but keeping active with activities that are different is important for your psyche to handle.

Your decision to leave probably had to do with the feeling that you were stuck in the relationship with nowhere to go. Life is full of lessons to be learned. Breaking up a long term relationship is just one of many hurdles that you will probably encounter in life. If you have made up your mind in this matter then stop thinking about it altogether and end it in a friendly manner. Life is too short to be sad and mad.

Making sure that you don't blame yourself because things didn't work out they way you wanted it too is important to understand. If you harbor those types of thoughts they will come back to haunt you because you will start feeling guilty for yourself and for your mate.

You took the initial steps to convey your feelings and you probably took stock of the pros and cons of the relationship and you came out with a decision that this was a bad relationship and both of you should go your separate ways in life. No it is not easy to say or to do but if it needs to be said then say it. Right afterwards you need to refocus your attention on life and take a vacation.

Take a vacation anywhere in the world, take time off from work, you deserve it. Going through an emotional crisis like this requires that you regenerate your psychological batteries and get back in the groove of living life the way you want too.

Your mind and body will thank you for your decision because bad relationships are not worth staying in for any length of time. You tried to make it work but in the end it was a lesson to both of you.

So knowing what to do to end a relationship let alone ending a bad relationship is important to know. Hoping that these steps will allow you to avoid the guilty feelings that a lot of people go through and allow you to go through life with purpose and fun.

Hope and despair, positive and negative. Which do you want after a breakup? Of course you want a chance to fix things up but do you know what to do or what to say to get back on track? If you do then visit http://www.hopeandjoy4u.com for a chance to regain your relationship.

Don't forget to download Indocquent's free social bookmark utility at http://www.indocquent.com/social_bookmark/social_bookmark_landingpage.html.

Monday, June 16, 2008

Sign of a Cheating Spouse: You've Got A Feeling

by Daryl

The signs may not have been blatantly obvious but they were there. Was it a new perfume or cologne smell you did not recognize? No. But it did appear strange to you that calls to your spouse's cell phone were on the increase. They also started to occur at more peculiar hours.

You tried to rationalize it by concluding these calls just come with the territory. Your spouse besides working a very demanding job also has interest in building a business of their own. Or it could be that they have a lot of friends and family who stay in constant contact with them. Nothing wrong with that.

Except where as before they took most of the calls in front of you now they step out of the room once too often. If you happened to approach them unexpectedly, the look on their face may betray nothing but the body language screams, "What are you doing here?" You may not have consciously observed this but there is little doubt that it did not go unnoticed by your instincts.

Even the most brilliant minds that have made a lifetime study on the subject are at a loss to explain the power of instinct. It follows no logical pattern or reasoning process and it doesn't appear to even be based solely off an emotional response.

But the stories of it in action are legendary. Somebody who was just about to take a flight somewhere or get it their car to drive down a certain street were suddenly stopped in their tracks when their instincts started going off like an obnoxious alarm bell. But these folks listened and disaster was averted.

In the case of a cheating spouse the instincts can pick up on things which you are not noticing or cannot bring yourself to notice (understandable). For instance there could be a subtle shift in the dynamic of your relationship. You may not have picked up on the distance that appears to be growing between the two of you or even detected the slight chill that has taken over many of your conversations. But make no mistake; it didn't escape your instinct.

Oftentimes a spouse that has suspicions concerning their significant other's infidelity will dismiss these notions as just being paranoid or the ramblings of an over active imagination. Anything is possible when it comes to the human mind.

While it's understandable to want to give your spouse the benefit of the doubt that does not mean in the process you should ever sell your instincts short. More than trusting your partner, their words or even the reassurances from people outside the relationship, listening to your instincts comes down to trusting in yourself. It's not trying to break up your marriage but it makes no apologies for its efforts to protect you from harm.

Article written by Daryl Campbell -The Relationship Tip – How to find out in just 3 minutes if your spouse is cheating on you

Don't forget to download Indocquent's free social bookmark utility at http://www.indocquent.com/social_bookmark/social_bookmark_landingpage.html.