Divorce lawyers are generally called upon when a marriage has broken down completely, with little chance of reconciliation, but finding one can be difficult; here's some of the qualities to look for:
- Competent in this field
- Have the right attitude for this work
- Proven to be reliable
You will need an attorney where at least fifty percent of their work is in this area and unless you're expecting problems, preferably one trained in divorce mediation that practices it professionally. Still, you also need to feel at ease with them; someone who immediately instills a sense of trust.
Attorneys that specialize in mediation cases will be able to give you sound advice for out of court settlements but if a court appearance is necessary, they will need experience. To get the most from your divorce lawyer, be well prepared and have everything written down; do not waste your money and time asking questions, the answers to which are readily available.
Plan each conversation by making an agenda and write down the things you want to talk about; take notes on the content of the conversation and the amount of time spent on phone calls. Keep a record of all correspondence and conversations and try where possible to have conversations on the phone which will reduce the amount of time required to see them in person.
Regard your attorney as a resource, not someone you depend on for emotional support because they cost too much for you to use them for sympathy and consolation; besides, you have family and friends for that. Unless you actually want your divorce lawyer to do something about your spouse's behavior or actions, do not use them for general complaints as it is costly and probably won't achieve anything.
Let your lawyer know from the start that you will be in charge of the case and they are there for legal advice and not as someone to lean on when things start getting rough. You are employing them for their experience but at the same time you need them to understand that it is your divorce and you want to make the decisions about how it is too proceed. As the person paying for their service, you should expect to be sent copies of any relevant documents and if there are any issues that need to be clarified that a prompt response by them is expected.
If money is an issue, it may be a preferable for you to only contact a lawyer for legal advice on a marital settlement but not representation. In these circumstances you may only need to write down any issues you are unsure about and speak to your lawyer regarding those, and possible outcomes. Marital settlements are something that can be arranged by the individuals involved and then have them checked by a divorce lawyer; then if things don't work out, the lawyer can always be hired to make the divorce settlement.
For more information concerning divorce procedings you can visit: http://divorceinfo.co.cc
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