Do You Know What You Need To Do In Order To Getting Your Ex Boyfriend Back?

by Jane Hatton

Getting your ex boyfriend back into your arms is really not that hard to do if you follow some simple steps. You need to analyze what happened in the first place and once you have those reasons pegged to be aware of them and let him know that you will change for the better.

This article will show you some simple techniques that you can use in order to get him back once again.

Knowing what broke the relationship up in the first place is a core reason to know. This reason could be irrefutable in nature but if it's a reason that can be fixed then the possibility of getting back together again is high.

As long as the core reason wasn't one of infidelity then you stand a very good chance of getting your ex boyfriend back following some strategies that I will detail shortly.

If you have had your relationship for a while, then you need to know what type of person you were in the beginning when you were being courted by him. You must have enjoyed his company or you wouldn't have lasted this long. Go back to that person and reacquaint yourself and maybe change your ways.

What happens with relationships is that we take things for granted and that's when problems arise. If you expect certain actions to happen and you don't get them how do you act? If your boyfriend holds the door open for you and you don't say thank you because you take it for granted that he's supposed to do that is a sure sign to failure of communication.

A simple thank you for the little things that he does for you is a great start. Simple and small gestures are a sure way to get a communication link re-established.

Just be the person you were that he was attracted to in the beginning of the relationship and you will do wonders for you and him.

Let time heal the psychological wounds, and then call him up for a coffee break to just talk about the weather. Make your conversation non-committal and let him know that are thinking about him all the time.

Talk about old times and the fun that you two used to have and see where that leads.

If you feel some sort of bond formulating then that's a good sign, if not then that's okay too. Remember that he's probably hurting and doesn't know how to say anything emotionally. Let him heal and let him know that you are still around.

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Divorce – Implications and Reasons

by David S Bishop

Divorce is the ending or dissolution of marriage before the death of either spouse. People opt for this unusual incident in their life when they feel that their partner is not compatible to them. There may be several reasons behind divorce, but one this is sure that no reason is incurable. People should not decide for divorce in hurry. Because, marriage is a pious lifetime bond between two people of different gender and it is meant to be a commitment of togetherness till the last breath of life.

Implications of Divorce

According to sociological studies, it is identified that divorce is the second-most stressful event in life, after the death of a spouse. It is often considered as one of the most hurtful periods in a person's life. Separation and Divorce is often related with grief-based sentiments over the loss of the desire to continue relationship. These sentiments include sadness, lethargy, depression, anxiety, anger, and other emotions.

The trauma caused by divorce is more painful and traumatic when couples choose option of legal divorce. It adds additional stress beyond the normal cases over the couples involved. For some time, it looks like relieving from a tough and unbearable relationship, but when the anger is over then divorced couples feel the gap in their life and value the importance of ex spouse in their life.

Popular Reasons for Divorce

There may be several reasons of excuses for divorce, but some of the most important and famous reasons are stated here:

1. Relationship dissatisfaction – Relationship dissatisfaction is a main cause behind divorce. It arises when a person starts thinking that his/her spouse is not according to their expectations or he/she is not a suitable match for him/her.
2. Presence of another relationship – In some cases extra marital affairs of either wife or husband becomes a reason for divorce. When they start comparing their spouse with current partner and find that his/her life will be better if they end existing relationship and start their life with new partner.
3. Lack of proper communication – It's true that current world is mad behind money and other materialistic things. In that case people are mad behind earning money, and they don't have time to spend with spouse. This lack of communication leads to dissatisfaction in sentimental as well as physical relations and lessen interest in spouse.

Apart from above described reasons there are other reasons also like financial problems, insecurity in relations as well as desire for more in relation. People often forget that all these problems are curable and can be solved on time to avoid divorces and traumatic experiences which is on the way after divorce.

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Loss Of The Cross In The End-times

by Jason Witt

Jesus warned about the abomination of desolation appearing in the End-times. He told you to flee from the church when you see it. And it is when the sacrifices and offerings stop in the holy place--when the Cross is preached no more.


"Then when you behold the abomination of the desolation," Jesus said, "the thing spoken through Daniel the Prophet, standing in a holy place (let the one reading comprehend!) Then let those in Judaea flee unto the mountains.


"The one upon the roof, let him not go down to carry anything out of his house. And the one in the field, let him not turn back to carry his garments. But woe to those having one in the womb, and the ones nursing in those days. And pray that your flight into exile does not happen in winter, nor on the Sabbath.


"For there will then be great affliction, such as has not happened from the beginning of the world unto the present, nor in any way shall be. And unless those days were cut short, no flesh would be delivered. But because of the chosen ones those days will be cut short."


The abomination of desolation is mentioned in the prophecy of Daniel. It is related to the stopping of sacrifices and offerings in the temple. When the sacrifices stop being offered, the temple is in desolation, and it is an abomination unto God. When there are no sacrifices for sin, God can not forgive the sin. So the sin collects and mounts up as an abomination.


Jesus died on the Cross for your sin. He knew He was going to die when He taught His disciples about the Last Days in Jerusalem. And He knew He was the perfect and ultimate Sacrifice for sin. So when the holy place goes without the sacrifices offered for sin, it is not only the destruction of the temple in Jerusalem Jesus is talking about. He is talking about the Christian church in the End-times.


When the Christian church quits preaching the Death and Resurrection of Jesus Christ, and the atonement of sins by His Death and eternal Life through His Resurrection, then the abomination of desolation is standing in the church.


Jesus was not talking only about the destruction of the temple with its ancient sacrifices as taught by the Law of Moses. Jesus knew He was a better sacrifice. So He spoke also of the Christian church in the last days. When your church no longer teaches the Death and Resurrection of Jesus as release from sins, it is time for you to flee your church.


Jesus mentioned those in Judaea because He came to preach to the lost sheep of Israel first, and He would not neglect them. The ones on the rooftops or in the fields were to flee immediately and not go back to bring anything of value with them. This shows the urgency of the situation. As soon as you realize your church does not teach the Cross and Resurrection of Jesus anymore, you are to flee right away and take nothing from that church with you.


Jesus mentioned also the woe for those with children coming. This is because in these End-times there is no future for these children on earth. They will not have a chance at a good life here on earth like there forefathers had. And they will face the tribulation at a young age.


Then Jesus taught what to pray for about fleeing in the Last Days. He taught you should pray your flight be not in the winter or on the Sabbath. This commandment is of prophetic significance.


You are to ask God for the summer instead of the winter. You are to ask for the progression of global warming. You are not to ask that it stops. You are to ask for the onset of climate change. This will be more like summer than winter for you. And you are to ask God for when to flee. You don't want to flee in times of Rest like the Sabbath. You want to flee in the midst of much business and not during a depression or recess.


Jesus says mysteriously that these Last Days in no way "shall be." This is because the tribulation of global warming is not caused by God. He gave Noah the Seal of the rainbow promising He would never destroy the earth again. So climate change is caused by people and is not a natural disaster. And therefore it is not something God "shall" ever do. God shall not destroy the earth.


And Jesus promises these End-times will be cut short for the sake of His chosen, or elect people. This means the tribulation happening because of all the natural disasters and wars and famines will be cut short in God's Mercy.


The abomination of desolation will stand in some churches, and when you see it happening you are to flee those churches immediately. This is the only way for your own tribulation to be cut short in these Last Days.

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Comfort From His Coming

by Jason Witt

Jesus spoke of some of the trials of the End-times. He spoke of the wars and persecutions that must happen in the Last Days, and He spoke of the spreading of the Gospel that has already begun to happen, the Promise of His Return.


When His disciples showed Him the wondrous architecture of the temple in Jerusalem, Jesus told them not one stone would be left upon another. Soon after this His disciples asked Him, "What is the Sign of your Coming, and the End of the Age?"


"Take heed lest any should mislead you!" Jesus said, "For many shall come in my name, saying, 'I am the Christ.' And they shall mislead many. But you shall hear of wars and reports of wars. Look to it, lest you be troubled, for all these things must take place, but not yet is the End. For nation shall rise up against nation, and kingdom against kingdom.


"And there will be famines and plagues and earthquakes in places. All these things are the beginning of birth-pangs. Then they shall deliver you unto affliction and shall kill you; and you shall be detested by all nations because of my Name. And then many shall stumble, and they shall deliver one another up, and they shall detest one another.


"And many false prophets shall arise, and they shall mislead many. And because of abounding lawlessness the love of many shall become cold. But the one persisting unto the End shall be saved.


"And this Good News of the Kingdom shall be proclaimed in the entire world, for a testimony to all the ones among the nations; and then shall come the End."


First Jesus was asked by His disciples about the End and His Return when He told them the temple would be destroyed. But His Answer was about the End-times coming much later than the destruction of the temple. And these Last Days are beginning now. The wars are coming--wars over food, wars over water, wars over energy, all of which are becoming scarce, and wars over beliefs.


Jesus said you must look upon these things so you are not troubled or alarmed. You shall not be caught by surprise when you see the Signs of the Last Days. You shall look for these Signs and expect what is coming. These Signs, Jesus said, are the beginning of birth pangs. And the wonderful Child being born is Jesus returning to His people.


No society on earth can survive the lack of resources threatening all nations. Rich or poor, every nation will lack water and food. This is why they will deliver you unto affliction and perhaps even kill you.


Yes, you too will be afflicted with the decline of civilization as you know it today. And you will be afflicted by the faithless people of the world because you still believe in Jesus and His Return.


There will be much sin and hatred abounding, and many false prophets arising who will mislead many people. Sin will abound so much that the love of many people will grow cold. But if you persist, if you endure, you will be saved. So when you continue in your faith in Jesus, and continue in love and forgiveness as much as possible while suffering in these Last Days, the wonderful Child Jesus will be born unto you in His Return.


The Good News of the Kingdom of God has already begun to be preached to whole world. Missionaries have been sent to all the countries on earth to bring the Message of salvation to those people who did not know of it before. This began about a century before the second millennium, ushering in the beginning of the End-times. So all countries in these Last Days have had a chance to hear the Gospel.


There will be wars coming and you will be afflicted and delivered up. So if you don't get killed, how will you survive the End-times? If you keep faith in Jesus He will return for you. These are birth pangs, and you will soon have the Child Jesus born to you again.


And God will comfort you. When you turn to God He will treat you with kindness and mercy. He is tender-hearted toward you when you are betrayed and persecuted by people in the world. He will be your comfort and you know when you die you have the Hope of spending eternity in Heaven. And in your submission to death you know you will soon meet God.


Climate change, or global warming, is going to cause the famines and plagues and then the wars of these Last Days. But suffering through this is a reason to rejoice, for it means Jesus will Return soon.

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Engraved Wedding Favors - are they worth the money?

by Suzanne Daykin

Engraved wedding favors are on my list of wedding items that if your wedding budget is tight you would be better off without them. The sad fact is that lots of your favors will end up being forgotten, either on the table at the reception or tucked away in a drawer at home.

You already know the wedding guests that will love the engraved photo frame with your names and wedding date; grannies, mums, aunties and old family friends. If your heart is set on engraved wedding favors buy them for these guests only. For the rest of your guests buy the same gift but without the engraving, they are more likely to treasure the gift as they would be happy to have it displayed at their home. The hard fact is if you put your name on it and if they remember to take it home it will have a short life on display.

To make your engraved wedding favors more appealing you could keep it simple with a thank you engraved on it or a discreet date and initials. This way you are saving yourself money and giving a gift that is appreciated and used.

The best favors to give are those that will be used, for men a pen knife or a watch - these are practical gifts and avoid the engraved tankards and cufflinks, they will be worn or used at the wedding but it is unlikely anyone will wear 'bestman' engraved cufflinks anywhere else. Unless they can't find any other cufflinks when they are getting ready one day! And I don't know anyone that will bring out an engraved tankard for a relaxing beer at home!

If you have the money the best engraved wedding favors are those that are personalized with your guests names, a beautiful jewellery box or a watch with a bridesmaids name engraved on it will be treasured for years.

If you are ordering engraved wedding favors it is worth talking with companies that provide corporate gifts, you will find that they will be more competitive as they are not quoting prices with that magical wedding mark up! Before you order just think will your guests appreciate the extra cost of the engraving?

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5 Cruise Pickup Tips

by Blue Wave Ted

I'm on a roll with cruises! Remembering my short romance made me remember the techniques I used to get a female companion while on a cruise. I'm no smooth operator, but these seem to work for me. If you're going to be stuck on one alone, it's really better if you get someone to hang out with and talk to, even if it's non-romantic. Who knows? You might find the one for you on a cruise with these tips!

1. Breathe confidence. Sure, some girls like the shy, hesitant type, but you can't really sense that right away. For most girls, the most important thing is confidence. Many women respond positively to it. Smile. Stand tall and move tall. Use confident strides. When trying to pick up a girl, act confident, but not too confident, lest you seem arrogant. She has to feel that you're sure she'll talk to you, and if you don't, big deal. If she rejects, take it with grace and exit with your head held high.

2. Pickup lines? Who needs them? Unless you have an especially creative line that's sure to work, don't use them. They don't work more often than not. Rely on more situational circumstances where those lines will actually work. Speaking of which…

3. Use terrain to your advantage. There are lots of ways to start a conversation. A great way to do this is when someone's outside, on deck. If she's leaning over the guardrail, enjoy the view too before approaching her. If she's relaxing on the recliner, get her a cool drink if she runs out. If she's tanning, don't offer to put lotion unless you have enough balls! If you're in a bar, standard bar rules apply. Are you in the buffet? Ask her if you can sit next to her or opposite her. Be sure she's relaxed enough to accept your offer!

4. Talk about travel. Since you're both on a cruise, use that as an opening line. Ask them if they're enjoying themselves. Ask them if they go often. If both of you are cruise regulars, exchange travel experiences. I've met quite a few friends this way! Fellow travelers love to tell stories, so take advantage of that. Be sure to let her speak, too! And remember to talk to her face, not to her chest.

5. Know when to back off. It may be hard at first, but you should sense when the woman doesn't want to talk to you any longer. When you see her look at her watch often when you're talking, try to end the conversation. Watch out if she's bored or unamused. Try to read her! If you leave without damaging your confidence, it will be easier to try for the next girl.

I'm not really a player, but I always look for a companion on a cruise, friend or more. It adds to the experience and enjoyment, since you meet someone new. How about you? What stuff works on a cruise?

Ted is a prolific travel writer who has the amazing ability to draw out the real stories from each and every city he visits. Browse his blog at Blue Wave Ted

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Baiyat

by Dr. D.S. Merchant

The word baiyat, occurring 14 times in the Koran is derived from ba'ya meaning sale and purchase, bargain or transaction. In Arabic the word yabi'u means to sell, ba'a means he sold, al-bai'u means sale and al-baya means sale and purchase. In Islamic terminology, the term baya refers to an agreement or undertaking between the master and his followers. Other synonymous expressions appearing in the Koran are al-ahd (13:19-20) and al-mithaq (33:7, 5:14). Thus, baya or baiyat means an agreement or spiritual undertaking between the Lord and his followers. When one swears an oath of allegiance (baiyat), he gets guarantee from his Lord.

In Islam, the best example in this context is the Baiyat al-Aqba, which had been taken two times by the people of Medina from the Prophet on the hill of Aqba in Mecca. When the Prophet came in Medina, the Ansar women assembled in a house for taking oath of allegiance with the conditions that they would remain away from shirk, would never blame on others, would not commit theft, would never commit adultery and would not kill children. Another important illustration is the Baiyat al-Ridwan (the pledge of God pleasure) taken under a tree during the treaty of Hudaibia. The word ridwan is used that God well pleased (radiya) with the believers. These believers are also known as the ashab al-samra (the Companions of the tree). After the conquest of Mecca, the Prophet sat on Mount Safa and took oath of allegiance from the persons who embraced Islam, both men and women. The Prophet dipped his hand in a bowl of water and took it, then the women dipped their hands. After his farewell pilgrimage, the Prophet' caravan halted at the Ghadir al-Khum on 18th Zilhaja, 10/March 16, 632, where he declared Ali bin Abu Talib as his successor. Ali took the baiyat of the believers, known as the Baiyat al-Ghadir.

Cyril Glassee writes in The Concise Encyclopaedia of Islam (London, 1989, p. 69) that, "The installation or recognition of a ruler in his office takes the form of a pact, a bay'ah, which is an oath of fealty or allegiance. This is made with the ruler by the subjects, or, on their behalf, by the body of religious scholars, and political chief. Initiation into a Sufi order is also in the form of pact made by the novice with God through the spiritual master."

The Shi'ites maintain that bay'a is an oath of allegiance, a solemn pledge and binding covenant made with the Imam of the time to render obedience to him in all matters, which remains forceful unalterably in the relationship between the followers and the Imam. A well known hadith relates: "Whoever dies without a pledge of allegiance on his neck has died a pagan death" (man mata wa-laysa fi unuqihi bay'atun fa-qad mata mitatan jahiliyah).

"Hence, it is necessary for you that you should remind yourselves of the covenants that you have made with the Imam and the terms of the covenant that you have taken upon yourselves to fulfill. If you ignore inadvertently or forget or treat lightly any of those terms, then the moment you realize your mistake you must atone for it by repentance and do what you have omitted to do. If you have forgotten the terms or some part of it then renew them by reviving the terms of the covenant. Admit your guilt and repent to God and to the Imam. If you persist in your mistakes or your ignorance then you will appear before God as One who had ignored His sign on earth and broken his vow with Him" (Kitab al-Himma).

Mumtaz Ali Tajddin S. Ali is an popular Ismaili Scholar, He has written many surveys on religion of islam and ismailism such as Baiyat, 101 Ismaili Heroes, Ismaili Imams biography, Jubilees, history and tradition.

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Immersing For Mercy-Prophetic Baptism From Heaven

by Jason Witt

When Jesus taught in the temple in Jerusalem, His Authority was questioned. He asked in return about John the Baptist. His teaching was from Heaven and baptism predicting the End of the world is from God.


The chief priests and elders of the people came forward while Jesus was preaching in the temple. "By what Authority do you do these things," they asked, "and who gave to you this Authority?"


"I shall ask you also one Word," Jesus answered, "which if you tell me I will also tell you by what Authority I do these things. The baptism of John--where was it from? Was it from Heaven or from men?"


And they went and argued among themselves, and said, "If we say 'from Heaven' He will say, 'Why then did you not believe him?' And if we say 'from men' we fear the crowd, for all hold John as a Prophet.'"


So they told Jesus, "We do not know."


Jesus said, "Nor do I tell you by what Authority I do these things."


When Jesus would not answer them like this, He showed how they really knew the answer. The baptism of John was from Heaven. It was not from men. And the chief priests and elders were proven wrong by the common people because they did not believe in John as a prophet, but the common people believed in him. And they knew better. They knew the Truth.


Jesus wouldn't answer them in order to save them. Now there was nothing He could do to reveal the Truth to them. They knew enough of the Truth without believing it. Even Jesus couldn't help them now.


They were more concerned with what men thought of them than with what God thought of them. But when they asked Jesus about His Authority, He was not concerned with what anyone thought of Him. And His Words convicted them as knowing and not believing.


The baptism of John was from Heaven and John was a prophet of God. The common people were right to believe on him. But the baptism has a prophetic significance for these Last Days. And this calls into question the cause of the global warming happening right now that is rising the sea levels and causing the floods on land too. Like the baptism, is it caused by people or by God?


God is not causing the End of the world. It is caused by people. Some people have argued a natural cause for the rising temperatures of climate change, and they also argue that means the natural cause will pass and the climate will not continue to change. If there were natural causes then God would be causing global warming.


But God can not be causing the rising temperatures because He will not destroy the world like that. And He is not causing just a temporary warming of the world either. The Prophecy of Jesus shows you that.


God would not try you by showing you the Prophecy of Jesus about these End-times to begin and then stop it from happening any further. God is not testing you because God is going to confirm the Prophecy of Jesus.


And God will not destroy the world. But now there are too many people in the world for its resources to feed the need and hunger of all those people. The baptism of John foretold the disasters of the Last Days in much flooding. God is not causing these End-times disasters and yet the prophetic baptism of John is from Heaven.


The baptism of John is from Heaven and God uses baptism to warn you to turn back to God in these Last Days. If you give up your life in submission to the rising waters of the End-times you will gain eternal Life in Heaven.

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How to select a right bride or groom

by Adam Sturo

Everybody has to face some questions once in a life time and that is how to choose a perfect life partner and where I can find him/her? Although the answer is not as easy as the question seems to be, it is very tough to decide the perfect partner for life because in a single meeting or twice no body can find so much about others that the whole life can be spend with him/her. You are not going to choose a product for yourself which you can exchange or refund if not found suitable. You are going to choose a companion for your whole life which will be beside you in every up's and downs of life.

There are few things which should be clear before deciding your life partner. Here are some points which every body should know about his/her life partner before selecting him. Have a look on these things below:

Nature:
One of the most important thing is nature. Every boy or girl should have a clear picture of his/her life partner as discussed its not a product which you can exchange if not found suitable.

Self Assessment
Another important thing is self assessment which should be clear, before you decide about your life partner. First and one of the most important things are your own dreams about your life partner. Every guy or girl must have a clear picture of his/her would be life partner, although it's very tough to find a life partner exactly like the person in your dreams, but at least you must need some of his/her qualities in your going to be life partner, so that you do not have to regret in future, therefore first of all, make your own view clear about it.

Decisions Making in Existing Relationship
If you are already in a relationship, and you are planning to tie the knots, then you should really check your compatibility. Because there is great difference between the scenario before and after marriage, it's not always true that your choice will be perfect in both the situations and the most important thing is the level of understanding, compatibility as well as the respect for each others.

These are the things which can be a matter of conflict after marriage. If these things are fine, then you are really lucky because you already have a perfect mate. Today there are lots of India Matrimonials websites which provides a great listing of indian brides and grooms. May it be helpful for you.

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Life after Divorce - When Is It Too Soon to Date After Divorce?

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A lot of people experience mixed emotions when thinking about dating again after their divorce. This includes excitement, joy, fear and even sadness. But have you thought about the feelings your kids may be having?

One of the most important aspects to keep in mind when considering your children's reactions is how long you have been divorced.

This has a huge impact on kids. Divorce research has shown time and time again, that kids take much longer to deal with all of the changes that come about as a result of a divorce than you are. The kids probably are still reeling from the divorce, while you're thinking about dating again.

Your dating makes this whole divorce thing much more real. Before then, you and their other parent just aren't living in the same house. Even though you've told your kids hundreds of times it won't work, they will still think there's the possibility that things may change and go back to "normal".

You going out with someone esle, makes the divorce much more real to them. It's NOT just that you aren't in the same house now. It's that somebody else may "replace" their other parent.

If this happens too soon, it can be overwhelming for kids. They are still grieving the loss of their old family and it feels to them that you're already trying to replace it with another family. It will feel this way to kids, even if it's just a first date.

Another aspect that complicates things is whether an affair is what broke up the marriage. If you begin dating too soon, kids may start wondering if that was the reason for the divorce. This will not start you and your new partner off on the right foot with your kids.

Because of all these reasons, be prepared for your kids to be upset to some extent about your dating. Does that mean you shouldn't begin dating? Not necessarily. But I will offer these questions to you if you're dating less than 4 months after your divorce is final (the keyword in that sentence is FINAL):

1. Why now?

2. What are you hoping for by dating again?

3. What have YOU done for yourself to help heal after your divorce?

4. How well are you getting along with your ex-spouse?

I would suggest waiting awhile if the answers to these revolve around fear of being alone, not feeling a need to look back at your previous marriage or if there is still a lot of conflict between you and your ex. Not only are your kids not ready, but neither are you.

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How To Talk To Girls – Talking Your Way To A Girl’s Heart

by Lee, Michael

Want to know how to talk to girls and easily attract them? In this article, you'll discover some unique conversation tips to warm up and eventually get a woman to like you. Putting her under a romantic spell can be very easy if you follow these great tips on how to talk to girls.

Be Calm and Confident.

The more nervous you are, the more prone you are to stutter and make mistakes when talking. You'll also have a very tough time coming up with anything interesting to say when you're anxious. So take it easy and be yourself. Women may notice if you're just "acting" out to impress her, and this might even turn her off.

Ask The "Right" Questions.

Ask questions that will encourage her to talk further and flaunt her ability or experiences. Don't ask questions that lead to a dead-end answer such as "yes" or "no", or questions that delve deeply into her private life (especially when you've just met). Moreover, don't ask silly questions for the sake of having something to say.

Develop Your Sense of Humor.

Among all the strategies on how to talk to girls, having a good sense of humor is probably the most effective.

Here are some great tips to improve your sense of humor:

If you've accidentally done something ridiculous or embarrassing, turn that situation into a joke. Learning to accept your own mistakes is a plus factor for women.

Watch comedy movies and shows to know how to deliver humor at the right time. Then tell the joke to your friends and ask them to honestly rank how funny (or not funny) you are. Tell them that your dating or social life depends on their honesty. If they don't think you're funny enough, practice until you get it right.

Each girl has her own diverse personality. Tell jokes that fit her qualities. Don't tell jokes that might offend her in any way. Be careful with sensitive issues such as religion, politics, beliefs, etc. Telling jokes about a certain politician or actor might turn out disastrous if she's a loyal fan of them.

Stay informed of current news and the latest jokes. You don't want to tell her a joke that she has heard many times before. Knowing what not to talk about is as important as knowing how to talk to girls.

If she also shows her humorous side, observe her style. Then weave your own style into hers. Be subtle; don't be too obvious that she notices you copying her approach.

Your body language is equally important in delivering your joke. Use the right facial expression and gestures.

If she's genuinely laughing, and sometimes holding or shoving you in a teasing manner, that means she's very much into you.

Did you get something useful out of this article on how to talk to girls? If you did, please share it with other guys who might need them. Remember to stay calm and confident, ask the "right" questions", and have a sense of humor so you can have an easy and pleasurable time speaking with women.

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Divorce Can Be Positive

For almost 30 years Rebecca Hanson had deliberately ignored her feelings so that she could endure a painful relationship. Now, she realizes that her feelings were an inner guidance system, given to her as a means of discovering a life of joy, peace, fulfillment and true service to others.

"If something feels good to me, it is good for me and everyone around me benefits," says a smiling Rebecca. Little by little and with deliberate consistency, Rebecca applied the Law of Attraction to every aspect of her life including her personal relationships, health, business and real estate transactions.

In 1997, Rebecca Hanson was living in Saskatoon, Saskatchewan, the 'Siberia' of Canada, struggling to find her own identity. Many years earlier, she had given up her career so that her physician husband could have his. With a husband who was seldom at home, she raised five children, two of whom are mentally challenged. After ending the long frustrating marriage, she was faced with finding a way to support herself. Rebecca was ripe for a new framework from which to make decisions when she encountered the Law of Attraction. Now she owns three successful companies, teaches and coaches others in how to live their dreams, and lives in a luxury condo in Victoria, B.C., Canada--one of North America's most sought after cities.

Ten years ago, Rebecca was pretty much on her own in understanding and applying the Law of Attraction. Now, it seems as if millions of people have opened their hearts and minds to the Law of Attraction, quantum physics and levels of calibrated consciousness. Today, people are eagerly asking how they can use the Law of Attraction to achieve positive outcomes--even in what is typically seen as a negative situation like divorce.

"All my life I have been a natural teacher and coach to others. I had such a strong desire to help people that I became a Registered Nurse and married a doctor. Little did I know that my desire to work as a nurse would be thwarted almost immediately after we tied the knot! But I found ways to use my nurses' training and natural gifts. In 1970 I wrote the entire curriculum for training teenage volunteers to work in rural hospitals. This effort was noticed and used for more than 30 years by the Northern Alberta Red Cross. I volunteered to teach women's Bible classes and wrote many inspirational articles. In 1978 our Down's syndrome daughter (our fourth child) was born and in 1980 we adopted a Down's syndrome baby who had been abandoned at birth. Through all the ups and downs of raising five children almost single-handedly, I carried a false hope that if I just sacrificed a little more, my husband would notice and care for me.

One day I woke up. It took a huge amount of courage to insist that he respect me. I remember once we were in a counseling situation and he said to the counselor, "She wants me to respect her! What will she do if I won't?" It was as if I had been sleep-walking the entire time we had been married and in a moment I came to: "If he hasn't noticed me by now, it isn't going to happen."

Shortly after that epiphany, I left. And soon after leaving him, I discovered the Law of Attraction and I never looked back!

Yes, people told me, 'You are sinning against God.' The real sin was tolerating another person's disdain and discounting of how wonderful and valuable a person I was! By agreeing with my husband, I made God into a pretty sorry Creator. So I let the religious community judge me as sinful and him as a saint.

Yes, people told me, 'You will endure financial hardship if you divorce him'. They had no idea and could not wrap their minds around the truth: that I was used to living on very little money.

Yes, I had been out of the workforce for 30 years and no longer had my RN license. No, I did not know how I would survive.

This I knew to be true: If I will pay attention to what feels good and right to me, I will be fine and so will my children.

It was hard work changing my mind-set from negative whining, bitter complaining and being the victim to always looking for and finding something good to say about everything!

It took WAY more patience than I had developed to wade through 4 1/2 years of legal mumbo-jumbo and go through a trial! Raising severely physically and mentally challenged children was a cake-walk compared to the patience and fortitude it took to stand my ground and believe that I am worth more than you are offering.

What this long-drawn out procedure did FOR me was help me develop strength, discover MORE natural gifts (I'm a total geek with the Internet), become authentic and blossom into the wonderful, caring, loving person I had hidden from.

Today, I totally GET IT! The Law of Attraction is bringing to each one of us the precise set of circumstances necessary to bring us back to LIFE! If you find yourself in the midst of divorce, wondering if there is a way to turn this into something good--then YES, YES, YES!"


Copyright (c) 2008 Rebecca Hanson

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Vibrating Dildos and Strapons for Women and Men’s Pleasure

by Mrunal C

A dildo is a toy similar to a penus in shape and is used by women for stimulation of their vagina or even anus. If the dildo produces vibrations inside the vagina of the women user, then it is called vibrating dildo. The importance of vibrating dildo is due to ecstatic sensations, which it produces in the vagina of a woman.

Vibrating dildos are useful in stimulating the clitoris, which normally remains dormant inmost of the women. Many women enhance their erotic pleasures with a vibrating dildo, which stimulates both their clitoris as well as the vagina. Some vibrating dildos have built in clit stimulators.

Strap on Adult Toys

Strap on adult toys can be used by both men and women on their respective partners. Men who want to use strap ons may be very conscious about their penus size and it gives them a psychological advantage of an enlarged penus. In contrast, women use strap on to experiment with gender role reversal. Some porn movies also show women using strap ons on their male partners through anal intercourse.

How to Use Strap Ons and Improve Erotic Pleasure?

Men should put a strap on over the penus and then use the strap on dildo in place of real penus. Women put strap on dildo in the anus of man to stimulate his prostate, which is the main organ of men. Inserting the strap on dildo in the anus can greatly help in erotic stimulation. When the prostate stimulation is combined with vibrations, it can result in male orgasms and increases chances of ejaculation. However, strap ons should be put into anus of men very slowly because it is normally tight.

Availability of Strap Ons and Vibrating Dildos at Online Stores

Internet has made it possible for men and women to buy vibrating dildos online. Various leading online stores sell strap ons and vibrating dildos. This process is quite simple and you can buy the product easily after completing payment details. However, you need to ensure that online store sells a durable product.

Types of Strap Ons

Online market provides you different types of strap ons for enhancing your erotic fun life. The different types of strap ons include plus size strap on, Heart strap on, Vibrating male extension, The beginners strap on, and Dong everlasting. These strap ons can turn any erotic fantasy into a reality.

Plus size strap on has an adjustable leather harness with metal ring. This feisty Plus-size Strap On for women is adjustable to fit up to a 46 inch waist. It has a slightly curved dong shaft that helps to hit the right spots. Heart strap on has a firm rubber dong that is used both anally and through the vagina. It provides exhilarating sensations to both men and women involved in erotic activity. Stimulating areas with vibrating penus extender or vibrating male extension is also very easy. All it requires is gentle pushes with dildos enabling stimulation.

Dong everlasting is for men who fantasise about bigger penus. This strap on holds the penus firmly in place for long time and removes any physical limitations. Therefore, men can have long lasting erotic pleasure. The use of strap ons by men and women has changed the dimensions of adult erotic life. The areas that remained dormant for a long time are stimulated with strap ons. The physical limitations are reduced and these products have boosted erotic independence. Men and women can enhance their erotic life with the help of strap on dildos.

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Salvaging a Broken Marriage - Is It Worth It?

by Brent Crouch

Few things in life can be as shattering as the shock of betrayal by one's spouse. In many such instances, the devastation is too great and the only realistic solution is a divorce. It is, however, not always impossible to salvage the marriage. After the initial state of disbelief, any further attempts to reconcile oneself with the situation begs the question: "Is it worth it to try to save my marriage?" If one's answer is yes, consider the following.

The anger, pain, and shock that will occur after discover one's spouse has broken their vows may seem at first to become a permanent state of living. Remember, by allowing these feelings to control oneself, one is giving one's fraudulent spouse complete power over the situation. One ultimately has to make the decision for oneself whether or not to move or to try to fix what has been broken. It lies in the wronged spouse to be honest with oneself and decide whether or not they can truly forgive such a transgression.

Marriage counselors continuously hear, "I have no choice but to save my marriage. We have to stay together for our children." This belief is noble but can do more harm than good. An unhealthy marriage will create an environment of hostility and suspicion that no child will benefit from growing up in.

There's a reason the saying "once a cheater, always a cheater" persists-in many cases it is unfortunately the truth. Past behavior is often the best indicator of future behavior. That's not to say that people are always incapable of changing. If one's spouse is truly remorseful and ready to do everything in their power to prove themselves trustworthy, and one is truly willing to give them a chance to do so, it may be possible that the relationship can be healed.

If one finds oneself bringing up the injury to oneself over and over again and one simply cannot help oneself from raising painful memories, it is probably much healthier for one to move on from the relationship. If, however, one has resolved to stay in the relationship, be aware of the strength and fortitude it will require to repair the damage that has been done.

Professional counseling can be very helpful in working through the complicated issues surrounding infidelity. There are also many websites and forums dedicated to providing advice and support for those experiencing this struggle. In any case, be sure to surround oneself with good, trustworthy friends who have empathy for what one is dealing with.

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Let a celebrity divorce lawyer handle the intricacies of your case

by Damyel Flower

As a celebrity, an individual must be used to being in the public eye and in the limelight always. Each and every event of a celebrity's life gets highlighted by the media and overnight the public are informed about it. If a celebrity ties the knot, then it is also a happy occasion for the fans and similarly a celebrity divorce is a matter of animated discussion and speculation for the general public. Like in any matter involving a celebrity, even a divorce is handled by some of the best divorce lawyers in the industry and a celebrity divorce lawyer automatically comes into the limelight due to the high profile cases which he handles. So if you are a celebrity undergoing a divorce, there is no doubt that you too would hire a successful lawyer accustomed to handling such cases. Even if you are not a celebrity, but would still like a high profile lawyer to represent your divorce case, it will no doubt give you an edge in winning the case.

A celebrity divorce lawyer is in high demand at all times because of his vast experience and proficiency in handling divorce cases. It is needless to say that the price of hiring a celebrity divorce lawyer to handle your case will be quite high. However, if you consider the expertise and experience of the lawyer and want the very best in the industry to fight your case for you, the price seems justified. It is advisable that you do a little background research on the lawyer you plan to hire before you actually approach the professional. The yellow pages and the internet are some of the best platforms to collect any kind of information about a lawyer and you could use these mediums to locate a competent divorce lawyer for your case.

A celebrity divorce lawyer is a very busy individual and it would help your case if you could prepare yourself well before you approach the lawyer. When you opt for a lawyer handling celebrity divorce cases, you need to be prepared to provide him the complete details of your case in a gist in order to enable him to fully understand the case history and decide whether he would like to handle it for you. He may also charge a fee for only consultation, so must go to him only after verifying all details about his way of work.

A divorce is not just a mentally and emotionally traumatizing time for the couple but also for their family and friends involved. It involves sensitive issues like settlement of financial arrangement like the payment of alimony, division of assets of the couple and even child custody in some cases. A celebrity divorce lawyer will not only be experienced and competent in dealing with these issues but he will also be used to handling these situations in a delicate and subdued manner. So when faced with the unpleasant prospect of a divorce, it is best to hire the best lawyer who can effectively handle your case and increase your chances of a favorable outcome.

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Choosing the best divorce lawyer

by Woody1

Divorce lawyers are generally called upon when a marriage has broken down completely, with little chance of reconciliation, but finding one can be difficult; here's some of the qualities to look for:

• Competent in this field
• Have the right attitude for this work
• Proven to be reliable

You will need an attorney where at least fifty percent of their work is in this area and unless you're expecting problems, preferably one trained in divorce mediation that practices it professionally. Still, you also need to feel at ease with them; someone who immediately instills a sense of trust.

Attorneys that specialize in mediation cases will be able to give you sound advice for out of court settlements but if a court appearance is necessary, they will need experience. To get the most from your divorce lawyer, be well prepared and have everything written down; do not waste your money and time asking questions, the answers to which are readily available.

Plan each conversation by making an agenda and write down the things you want to talk about; take notes on the content of the conversation and the amount of time spent on phone calls. Keep a record of all correspondence and conversations and try where possible to have conversations on the phone which will reduce the amount of time required to see them in person.

Regard your attorney as a resource, not someone you depend on for emotional support because they cost too much for you to use them for sympathy and consolation; besides, you have family and friends for that. Unless you actually want your divorce lawyer to do something about your spouse's behavior or actions, do not use them for general complaints as it is costly and probably won't achieve anything.

Let your lawyer know from the start that you will be in charge of the case and they are there for legal advice and not as someone to lean on when things start getting rough. You are employing them for their experience but at the same time you need them to understand that it is your divorce and you want to make the decisions about how it is too proceed. As the person paying for their service, you should expect to be sent copies of any relevant documents and if there are any issues that need to be clarified that a prompt response by them is expected.

If money is an issue, it may be a preferable for you to only contact a lawyer for legal advice on a marital settlement but not representation. In these circumstances you may only need to write down any issues you are unsure about and speak to your lawyer regarding those, and possible outcomes. Marital settlements are something that can be arranged by the individuals involved and then have them checked by a divorce lawyer; then if things don't work out, the lawyer can always be hired to make the divorce settlement.

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Online Dating Etiquette-Responding to Unsolicted Response

by Jim McMenamin

Experienced online daters will tell you that the game begins once your inbox starts filling up with emails or notifications of interest. Depending on the online dating site you're using, the notifications will have different names, such as a wink or icebreaker.

You've gone through a lot of hard work to get your online dating profile set up. This is done for one specific reason; to get your profile to stand out among all the other profiles on the site. You're hoping that others will want to get in contact with you to find out a little more about you.

The culmination of all of this effort materializes in your email inbox. You should start getting unsolicited emails and notifications from people who are hoping to get to know a little more about you.

You open up the email, and you click the link to take a look at that person's profile. You try to decide if this is someone you may be interested in getting to know a little better. If so, I recommend you craft a response back to them in a prompt fashion.

That's the best case scenario; however, what is the proper etiquette for responding to someone that you're not interested in?

This question is up for debate among dating experts, with the schools of thought pretty evenly divided.

Option #1: Don't Respond

Some experts suggest that there is no need to respond back to someone that you just aren't interested in. They feel that you are under no obligation, and that this is one of the perks of using an online dating service. You can get to know as many people as you like, without having any strings attached.

Option #2: Respond

Put yourself in their shoes. If you found someone of interest you would send them an email (or wink) over to them to show your interest. You're not expecting this person to drop everything that they're doing to respond to you, but you are hoping to hear something back in a timely fashion.

We're all grown ups, and rejection is a part of life. We don't enjoy it, but in dating it's just a part of the process. I would rather be told no than to than to not get any response at all.

I think it's just as easy to take a few minutes of your time to respond back. Although I'm a big fan of personalizing each correspondence I make, in this instance I don't see the need to do so. Just come up with a set response, save it as a file, and copy and paste it into emails as needed.

Here's an example that you can use:

"Thank you very much for your interest. I'm flattered to hear from you, but after taking a few minutes to read through your profile, you don't seem to share many of the interests that are important to me. Good luck with your dating search and best wishes!"

You've given the person the common courtesy of a response while at the same time you've let them know that you're not interested. If they decide to respond back asking why, I think at that point you're not under any obligation to respond.


How difficult is that?

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Wedding Preparation Checklist

by www.KomailNoori.com

Since I keep on discussing details of our wedding with people, hence increasing the number of our wedding guests, I decided to participate in this forum to earn extra cash for the wedding and enable myself to discuss my millions of wedding ideas and issues to relieve my self from preparation stress.

The checklist below contains a guide that should help you in planning and scheduling your wedding related tasks:

6-12 MONTHS BEFORE THE WEDDING
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- Reserve the date with your florist, photographer, videographer and disk jockey
- Set the date and time of the wedding
- Reserve the location
- For church and synagogue weddings, visit appropriate clergy members.
- Establish the wedding budget
- Choose attendants, honor attendants and ushers
- Order your wedding invitations and announcements
- Pick out the Bride's gown and headpiece
- Shop for attendant's attire and accessories
- Establish a color scheme
- Order your wedding rings
- Register for china, silver and crystal patterns and other home gifts


2-4 MONTHS BEFORE THE WEDDING
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- Meet with your florist to order your wedding flowers. (Bring a sketch or photo of your dress and color swatches of your bridesmaids' dresses.)
- Address all wedding invitations and announcements
- Plan rehearsal dinner
- Arrange lodging for out-of -town guests and attendants
- Select music and meet with disk jockey, videographer and photographer
- Have your wedding portrait taken
- Order the wedding cake


4-6 WEEKS BEFORE THE WEDDING
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- Contact your florist for an appointment to review your order
- Send "thank you" flowers to the hosts of your pre-wedding parties
- Mail your wedding invitations
- Have the final fitting of your gown
- Meet with the photographer, videographer and disk jockey to update them on the details
- Arrange special transportation for the wedding party
- Select the groom's gift
- Prepare seating chart for reception guests
- Write thank-you notes for shower gifts and wedding gifts as they arrive
- Place announcement in local newspapers


2 WEEKS BEFORE THE WEDDING
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- Make final check with your florist. (Double check delivery times and locations.)
- Order "thank-you" flowers to be sent to parents after the wedding
- Obtain the marriage license
- Make name changes on bank accounts and official documents
- Keep a list of wedding gifts and their senders as they arrive
- Finalize seating chart for reception guests


1 WEEK BEFORE THE WEDDING
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- Give the final guest count for the reception to the reception coordinator
- Arrange pick up of guests and attendants arriving at airports
- Enjoy the benefits of good planning and a have a beautiful wedding day!!

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Prime for The Big Orgasm - Do Not Wait For A Miracle, Work On It

by Francis K Githinji

Orgasms are supposed to be natural just like normal breathing in and out, yawning or a sneezing. Sometimes we fail to understand why women would have any trouble experiencing orgasms whenever they wanted one or multiple orgasms. It is estimated that a high percentage of women fake orgasm. They are as old as thirty years but have never experienced the thrilling moment. Some women confess to having experienced it only once in their lifetime. This leaves them yearning for it to happen again. Here are some tips on helping you to prime for the big 'O'. May be it is something small which is robbing you off your sexual pleasure. May be you are so stressed with deadlines to meet. You are too worked up to enjoy a climax.

Perhaps your sexual partner is not so good at helping you to prime for the big orgasm. Whatever the hinderance, it is now your time to stop missing out on the fun. You deserve it girl! help yourself out and get the big payoff. Amazing orgasms are enjoyed by people who are bold enough to get out of their head. Self critisism sends you out of the bed and in to your head. He is not concentrating on how your thighs are fat. This kind of an attitude is a major passion squelcher. If you love yourself you will enjoy screaming orgasms. It sounds funny but you have to love yourself by experimenting what makes sends you over to the edge.

Take your fingers for a trip all over the erogenous zones. Try it hard and fast then slow and soft. Apply different pressures and prime for the big 'O'. The revelation is going to help you guide your partner on what you like. If missionary style makes you scream with orgasmic pleasure, go for it it does not make you look prude. You learn about orgasm by experiencing them all by yourself. Masturbation is a sure route to self identification. Get adventurous. It is in this trip that you may find your G-spot. If you play with your fingers right you will certainly find the female hotspot. The new found G-spot will help you prime for the big orgasm. You will never regret getting naughty while you are alone.

When you have a G-spot you are lucky to have orgasms through clitorial stimulation and vaginal penetration. The erogenous zone is said to be behind the pubic bone and about two inches inside the vagina. The end justifies the means and the all roads lead to Rome. It does not matter what you do provided you prime for the big orgasm. Some women get orgasms through the touch on their breast or a rub on their neck. Others even climax by fantasizing alone. Without any touch whatsoever. To prime for the big orgasm you should get adventurous because if you do not know you cannot even give directions. A G-spot and a clitoris are not the only holy grails of sex. Women have several sensitive ares which can give then orgasms.

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Send Out Positive Frequencies When Dating

by Terry Detty

It has been said that the Law of Attraction can manifest itself in matters of wealth, health, and happiness. Part of the happiness is having fulfilling relationships. These can be romantic love relationships or familial relationships or simple friendships. The Law of Attraction affects them all.



Whether you are trying to put the Law of Attraction to use in your life or not, it is always at work. You are always putting out vibrations into the universe. They are always collecting with like energies and coming back to you.



The difference when you deliberately use the Law of Attraction is that you focus on the things you want. Then, these positive things return to you. What you give your attention to is what becomes important in your life.



Once something becomes important to you, you will develop an excitement about it. That excitement will turn into a power that is greater than any you can drum up by simply repeating words about what you want. The Law of Attraction works in relationships as well as it does in anything else.



By deliberately using the Law of Attraction, you can find that special person you are looking for. One step is to determine what it is you want from a mate. Make a list. Write down strengths you would like the person to have. Write down joys you would like to share.



Once you have a more concrete idea of what you want, the universe will bring you to your mate through the Law of Attraction. This will happen through matching of frequencies. You send out the frequency of what you want. That vibration goes out and collects with other frequencies like it. In other words, it matches.



When your frequency is vibrating in concert with another frequency, it will only be a matter of time before you meet someone. The Law of Attraction will be at work. At this point, you should follow your hunches. If you have the urge to do something on a different schedule than usual, then do it. This may be how you find your mate.



Just let the Law of Attraction do its work. Continue to reaffirm in your mind the fact that the person you are looking for exists. Believe that you will find that person. Draw your attention and excitement to the subject. Things will happen.



Other relationships work on the theory of matching as well. You put out energy towards a person in your life. That energy can be for or against them. Whatever energy you send them will match whatever energy in them that is like that frequency. You will get the result you expect. This is the Law of Attraction.



If you are feeling down, the Law of Attraction will supply you with a companion in despair. As the two of you spiral down, you will be better off if you decide to let the Law of Attraction work for you instead of against you. Find ways that your frequencies can vibrate in harmony in a positive way. This will strengthen and lengthen friendships like nothing else.



Your relationships can develop into more than they ever were before. Your friendships can be deeper. You can live in harmony with your relatives. Your love interests can become life-long partners. The Law of Attraction can make it all come true.



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Marriages in a Church

by Suzie Smith

When two people get married whether in a civil ceremony or religious one, it is called a wedding; the ceremony has seen a large change in attitude over the last decade. Although the service may be quite lengthy and involved, it is not complete until the legal aspect is fulfilled; until the marriage certificate is signed by the bride, groom and witnesses, the ceremony is not finalized. The man getting married is called the groom or bridegroom to give him his full title and the woman the bride; after the ceremony they become a wife and a husband, respectively.
Marriages in a Church

Wedding traditions and customs vary greatly between cultures, ethnic groups, religions, countries, and social classes. Performed by a Christian priest or vicar, the Church ceremony continues to be top of the list as a venue. These ceremonies are usually referred to as white weddings and are considered formal or semi-formal in the United Kingdom, Ireland and United States, as well as some other Commonwealth countries.

Twin Ceremonies

A different type occasion often difficult to arrange is where two couples are married simultaneously; ceremonies such as this are usually instigated by siblings who like the idea of a simultaneous marriage.

Destination Weddings

These days it is easy for couples to arrange a wedding in another country and have the guests travel to them with the honeymoon continuing afterwards; as a wedding option it can work out considerably less expensive this way.

Weekend Weddings

Weekend weddings are becoming popular and in Ireland they take place over the course of three days. Special activities, such as spa treatments and golf tournaments, are scheduled into the itinerary for guests' enjoyment throughout the weekend. For many people that have outdoor interests this can be a lot of fun and the guests can stay for the weekend with them to extend the occasion.

Online Weddings

Although unusual, you can even get married online and it will resemble a normal wedding or you can even have characters of yourselves get married; internet companies specializing in this type of ceremony are there to help you with your marriage. This can prove a useful tool where relatives and friends from around the world can see an online wedding take place in real time without actually being there!

City Hall Weddings Local civil authority services are called civil weddings as they do not take place in a church and must be performed by a locally elected or appointed official. These ceremonies do not normally make any reference to God as they are a legal ceremony only. Often, this type of service will take place in a judge's chambers, town or city hall or any other specially designated place.

The weddings discussed here are primarily based around Christian beliefs but each religion and culture has their own traditions in this area.

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Life After Divorce - Are you Stuck or Moving Forward After Your Divorce?

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One of the most important steps that divorced parents can take before getting remarried is to let go of the strong emotions from their divorce. These are the emotions that hold us prisoners to our thoughts. They keep us focused on what "was", "what could have been", or "what should have been". There's little room for "what can be."

Moving past these emotions, is, of course, a lot easier said than done. Unfortunately, there's no magic pill that suddenly makes you feel better. It's the "going through" that helps us to grow. This month, I'd like to take a look at three of the most common feelings experienced by divorced parents and discuss why it's important to put those to rest.

SADNESS

Sadness comes from many situations in a divorce. It can be when you realize that the hopes and dreams you had for the future with your spouse have died. For some people this sadness comes while they're still in the marriage and realize it's dying. Sadness occurs during the divorce when everyone is forced to acknowledge the fact that the marriage is ending. After the divorce, it's usually brought on by trying to help the children deal with the changes in their lives as well as grieving the loss of the family you had.

What's the problem with being sad?

Once again, the problem lies in the amount of time and also the intensity. Adults deal with grief most strongly at the point when the incident occurs. We have ups and downs, but usually are on a healing path as time moves forward. If we just continue to fall deeper and deeper into sadness, depression may strike - effecting every area of our lives.

Depression prevents us from being there emotionally for our children. The sadness also puts you at risk for isolating yourself at a time when you may really need supports. Friends may try to encourage you to go out and have fun, but you refuse. This only escalates your feelings of sadness because you are alone.

LONELINESS

Adjusting to being alone after marriage is a hard task. We become used to having another adult in the house even if they weren't especially helpful. There's a comfort level to knowing somebody else is there. That's gone once the spouse moves out during the divorce. You are left alone with the children. Then when the kids are spending time with your ex-spouse, that leaves you ALONE.

What's the problem with being lonely?

Loneliness can be especially dangerous for a newly divorced parent. This is the driving force behind people rushing into a new relationship. It can be uncomfortable to sit at home by yourself on a weekend while the kids are with your ex. Climbing into an empty bed every night can be hard.

While hard, this is a HUGE predictor in remarriage success or failure. People who rush into a new relationship due to fears of being alone aren't very choosy. They also haven't taken a good look at themselves to see what went wrong in their marriage. Both of those factors combined create an ideal situation for ending up in a relationship with someone very much like your ex-spouse. On the surface they make look like the complete opposite, but deep down, they're probably very similar.

ANGER

This is usually the one that people are willing to talk about. I don't know too many people who've gone through a divorce and smiled about it throughout the whole process. There are countless reasons why anger comes up no matter who initiated the divorce.

After the divorce, anger can continue to infiltrate your life. You may be upset about your ex-spouse's relationship with your children. You may be angry about your changed financial situation. Feeling angry with everything that's changed in your life as a result of the divorce is normal.

What's the problem with being angry?

The short answer is "nothing." Everyone's entitled to be upset. Divorce is a major, life changing event. We don't usually like too much change at once. The problem is when the level of anger you feel stays the same or intensifies over time.

Remember the old saying, "Time heals all wounds"? There is a lot of truth to that. If you're not "healing" then you're getting stuck. That anger won't allow you to be the parent you need to be. It also won't allow you to be the partner you need to be in future relationships.

While each of these emotions are very normal and to be expected - it's all up to you and how you handle them in deciding if you're moving toward a place of growth or a place of repeating the past. No one enjoys these feelings and for some us it's even hard to admit that we have them. But, trying to ignore them by jumping into a new relationship in hopes of skipping over them just doesn't work. What you'll end up with is another broken heart and possibly another broken marriage

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3 Steps To Finding Love Online

by Vivian Johnson

What is the point of joining an online dating site if not to find love? Here are the 3 steps to finding love online...

First-Find the right online dating site for you. There are tons to choose from so take your time and be sure.

Second-Once you have found the site/s you are interested in, set up your profile. You can use the same profile on all of the sites you join.

Take your time selecting your photo, and your user name. Also, you will need to complete the Profile Essay questions which will give your "admirers" a little more insight into who you are. Answer these as truthfully as possible, within reason.

You should also have space for your creative side. Here you can add a little bit of "you". Include an excerpt from your favorite sonnet...of a lyric from a song you wrote...a few of your favorite movie quotes. Anything that adds to who "you" are.

Third-You must know what you want to find online. If you are uncertain, do not put up a profile. If you put up a profile without a sense of direction, you will be a "catch all". You will receive emails from every walk of life. If you do not take the time to be specific you will waste a lot of time sorting out the email. Which means you will not have time to pursue or be pursued by "the one". Do not let anyone you are not interested in monopolize your time.

If you will take these 3 steps into consideration, you will save yourself a lot of time and frustration when it comes to finding love online.

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